Saturday, November 11, 2006
My phone rang, and it was a number I thought I recognized.
"Hello"
"Hi... its Gino, I'm just calling to say hi."
Calling to say hi after two months? I thought.
I wondered if his call had anything to do with his friend Teddie who was helping me with a new start up business.
"Hello there, I wasn't expecting to ever hear from you..." I cautiously replied.
"Are you in one of your 'I hate Gino' moods" he asked in a teasing tone.
"I don't hate you I'm just kind of... indifferent towards you at this point." I had to put him in his place.
He was taken aback. "Wow, I was expecting you to be polite."
"I think I am being polite, just being honest."
I relented and had a polite conversation with Gino regarding his current events and mine.
Then he said he had to run off to watch the end of some game.
He concluded the same way he began, "I was just calling to say hi..."
"Hi back" I replied, and hung up.
I'm stumped as to why he could be calling me now, unless of course he misses me. How sweet.
Things with MM and I have hit a rough patch. He invited me and a friend to an event and the entire time he was trying to set her up with an acquaintance of his. I was under the impression that he wanted to get closer to me by meeting my friends. Instead, it seemed that was a ploy to round up fresh meat for his "good old buddy."
I felt uneasy and we left as soon as the event concluded.
After a day of ignoring his calls we finally spoke. It was a very typical fight, with me being passive aggressive and him refusing to apologize. He had to leave town shortly after and I won't be seeing him for a week or so.
I think we've had a good run and it's time for us both to move on. But right now would not be a good time to end things as I believe he is in need of my company. So, I'll plan on ending things early next year. In the meantime, I'll try to be more understanding and supportive to ensure things wrap up as neatly as possible.
The elusive virtue of patience has finally chosen me.
I called Michael because I missed him terribly and hated the way we ended. We'll be having coffee soon, I'm happy about that.
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4 Comments:
Re: MM - people with agendas are always an interesting bunch to watch regarding their behavior and approach.
A lot of times it interferes with their friendships and other aspects of their lives because ultimately it's all about them.
Patience and awareness of the situation are always virtues in these instances.
I totally agree with JW. .... watch your own agenda as well. You strike me, 9 times out of 10 - as a girl with a directed plan. Stick to that...don't be distracted.
xo-
Scarlet
Make as much as you can while you still can, "Youth is wasted on the young"...
I already consider myself old even though I am in my early 30s.
Anonymous Millionaire.
what are you guys getting out of this? i wish someone would just talk to me instead of making fun of me,i don't bother anyone, why bother me? everyone has me wrong firstly, and if someone wants to be nice and try to tell me something thru this, i still don't get it, so just tell me. but this was found by my bf. i think it's old and time to stop, you have hurt me enough, i don't hurt anymore
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