Thursday, January 26, 2012

Men Are Like Boomerangs; They Always Come Back

My darlings it's been far too long!  Since my last entry much has changed, I've been in communication with many of my Ex SDs and Pots.

Some of my relationships have changed drastically, others not so much.  As you know, my focus is strictly on what feeds my bottom line and out with what doesn't.

Gino Update:
I ran into Gino recently.  Much to my surprise, and yours I'm sure, he invited me to dinner.
Being the polite lady that I am, I obliged and joined him the next Friday for a meal and drinks.  The conversation that evening was remarkable.  Gino expressed regret for every slight he made towards me in the past.  Since I last saw him he's been once married and once divorced.  He relayed that he felt unprepared for a serious relationship when we were together.  Therein laid the explanation for his behavior.

Unfortunately, I am completely over Gino in every way a woman can be over a man.
He sends me presents.  Chocolates, flowers and exclusive invitations to show openings but I must not accept.  To do so would encourage him to have a dire misunderstanding of my intentions.

When I read my previous entries I feel completely disconnected.  Gino missed his chance entirely.  I can only hope never to make the same mistake.

Lesson:
Be in the moment.  Treasure what you have now, you may never get another chance to do so.

To be continued...

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am a new suger baby and I am a little confused with what I should be expecting and how much money to expect and other things. I am not quite sure where to meet potentials and when I acctually meet them where to go?
So confused -_-

Anonymous said...

I am new to the sugarbaby thing as well but I get an allowance of 5000 a month and I don't sleep with him for the first month until then we go to dinner movies whatever but that's just me everyone is different.

Anonymous said...

Im really interested as to how this works. Ive sent a few back and forth messages but im nervous and not sure how i will feel when the situation arises. Does a sugar baby imply sex, or is it just companionship+benefits(if it works out). Can you be a sugar baby and not have any sexual relations?

GypsyBaby said...

Yep, life is too short. I always say live in the "now" and enjoy your life. That is not to say that one shouldn't act responsibly, but I find that a lot of people over-think things and end up missing the boat EVERY TIME. Sad but true

Anonymous said...

I love your blog. I am a sugar baby myself. Just got started!

CoedCallGirl said...

Love your blog! I'm a SugarBaby too and i love reading about others like me. Where have you been lately?

Unknown said...

Has anyone ever held a relationship with someone same age and had a SD at the same time?

Anonymous said...

Wow! I stayed up the whole of last nite reading your blog. Im from Ghana, Africa! Im now finding my way into the whole SD SB thing! Its quite different back here! Tiring! Hope to get a catch soon!

Hope u write again soon!
Hugs! Xo