Monday, November 08, 2010

UPDATE: Sugardaddies and etc.

"All young ladies of spunk and massive intellect sample life with a rich codger-it's a rite of passage.
-- E. Jean, courtesy of Yeva SB

From SF Sugarbaby's Facebook.  I loved this quote so much I had to borrow it, hope you don't mind ;) 

For those who haven't befriended me on Facebook (I'm a lot more active there), here's a little update on a few men that have courted me in the past few months.

Mr. Coffee Shop:  We met unexpectedly at a local coffee shop (hence the name, très creative I know).  He was on the prowl, I had my head low and blinders on while working on a major project.  He slid into the seat next to me, made a smooth introduction and departed with his card in my hand.  Subsequently, we've met on several occasions. I'm not physically attracted to him but I find our chats engaging.  He could teach me a lot.  Recently I decided I wanted an arrangement with him, I dismissed his advances in the past but I've warmed up.  But alas, time, that fickle creature was not on my side.  He is currently knee deep in family issues and promised to get in touch in the near future.  Which he will, I'm sure.

Luigi:  The man who gifted me an iPhone the first time we met.  I enjoyed spending time with him but there's a language barrier.  After many lunches and dinners that felt like English tutoring lessons my interest waned.  Eventually I stopped returning his calls.  Out of nowhere he contacted me recently requesting a lunch date.  I obliged.  It was more of the same, constantly pausing to restructure his sentences in a way that is familiar to me.  So draining! He insists his English has gotten better, it is me that makes him so tongue tied.  As we were wrapping up our lunch date he requested my presence at dinner later that evening.  I was taken aback.  On one hand I'm flattered by his eagerness but it's a bit much.  A bright red stalker-status flag went up as I politely declined.  He's very aware of my needs, I've been explicit with him on numerous occasions - "if you want to continue to see me, I need some financial assistant."  But I don't think he gets it and probably never will.

Mr. Forbes:  The wealthiest man that has ever pursued me.  Initially, my feelings for him were strong, we have a lot in common and got close quickly.  Over time I came to realize he loved his freedom much more.  He keeps company with a stable of women ready to do as he wishes at the drop of a pin.  Though he has many qualities I admire, he isn't the one for me.  I'm just glad I didn't fuck him.

My work is taking up most of my time but in the upcoming months I'll be attending private parties, volunteering at local fundraisers and actively looking for my next Sugar Daddy.  Happy hunting!


M said...

Hi Tiffany :)

Best of luck in your endeavors!


violet badbunny said...

Love the quote.

and i have been an E Jean fan for some time... E Jean and Elle magazine

great post ;)


Anonymous said...

hi doll I'm a sugar baby with no sugar daddy but lots of offers,starring and..flakes.:( do I need to move to La to find a true SD?idk.I find your blog interesting.:) I'm 24 in may btw!

Anonymous said...

Love your blog.. sometimes I feel lost like there's no handbook for this way of life. It's nice to hear your account.

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Anonymous said...

Hey great blog, I am a new suger baby(= I just don't know where to find a suger daddy =( do you have any suggestions or any other suger babys have some for me?

Wendy Jeanlouis said...

Hey there, I love your blog posts. I Have been recommending your blogs to some of the girsl that i know who are interested. But anyway i came into this out of curiousity and found this guy who made the tp ten forbes list and so far things have not been going smoothly. I am so frustrated. The man acts like he is doing me a favor and imposes his will upon me despite everything i told him when we were getting to know each other.I just don't know what to do anymore